The Ultimate Personal Development
Experiencing Relationships from a Soul Perspective
Relationships. The most fascinating subject when it comes to personal and spiritual growth — and at the same time, the question I am asked most often in my work.
Many books have been written about relationships, but they are almost always approached from a rational point of view. For me, something essential was missing: the heart and the soul.
That is why, drawing from my profession and years of experience, I felt deeply called to create this beautiful course.
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Experiencing Relationships from Your Soul Consciousness
Do you want to know how you are really doing?
Take an honest look at your relationships. They reflect exactly where you are in this moment.
Do you feel like relationships keep disappointing you, over and over again?
Do you miss deep connection and growth in your relationships?
Do you feel stuck in patterns you just can’t seem to break?
The answers to these questions — and many more — can be found in this course.
An honest moment?
For years, I attracted people who walked all over my boundaries. To be honest, I barely had any boundaries at all. I was like a walking welcome sign with flashing neon lights: “Come on in with all your stuff!”
Only when I began looking at my relationships on a soul level did things become clear. This was never just about the other person — it was about my own lessons in self-love, taking up space, and inner strength. And that is exactly what I bring into this course.
Relationships… they are one of the most beautiful experiences in life — and sometimes also the most complex. Some relationships are temporary, others last a lifetime. One is not better than the other. Everyone who crosses your path comes to bring you something. Relationships are sacred encounters.
We are all deeply connected. The people in our lives can teach us so much. Yet often we look at relationships from the mind — from ego and expectations. We want something from the other. We expect to be seen and to receive what we believe we need. It can be difficult to stay connected to our heart and soul, and to view our relationships from a greater intelligence.
In this course, you will learn to recognize the true purpose of the relationships in your life. You will begin to see the challenges within relationships as valuable gifts. And… you will discover that the relationship you have with yourself is the most important foundation for a rich and fulfilling life.
We are born into a family, and that is where our first relationships begin. This is where the blueprint is formed for the relationships we will experience later in life. The relationships around us are a reflection of who we are in that moment. As you grow, your relationships grow with you. Sometimes they deepen, and sometimes they end on an earthly level — yet the connection often remains.
In this course, I lovingly guide you to experience relationships from a Soul Perspective. Through my work as a medium and spiritual coach, I know one thing for certain: relationships — and the way we perceive them — are essential to our growth as both human beings and souls.
You are a beautiful, sensitive, spiritual being in human form. You are meant to live your relationships from the heart. You are already enough just as you are. That is why the relationship with yourself — and awareness of who you truly are — is everything.
What Will You Learn in This Course?
Everything you need to create more loving, conscious, and soul-aligned relationships.
Creating your own daily happiness starts with awareness and taking loving care of yourself.
Self-care means learning to look at your life with conscious, compassionate love. Nothing happens by chance — there is a greater purpose within your life.
As you become aware of this, you will begin to truly know yourself and feel more deeply connected to your life. From there, life starts to flow more naturally, and you will experience it with greater ease and effortlessness.
After This Course, You Will:
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Have a conscious, loving relationship with yourself
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Know that your deceased loved ones are always with you, in love
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Understand more deeply why exactly these people are part of your life
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Look at your own behavior — and that of others — with compassion
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Understand the deeper connection between you and the people around you
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Be able to communicate from your heart
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Feel more capable of creating fulfilling and meaningful relationships
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Know that painful relationships bring lessons and that healing is possible
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Realize that you are surrounded by many soulmates who love you unconditionally
How Is This Course Structured — and Why Am I So Enthusiastic About It?
I explain it all in this video.
Practical Information & Course Structure
Online Course: Experiencing Relationships from a Soul Perspective
Each Module Includes:
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Several in-depth video lessons
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Meditations / visualizations (available for download)
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A “Consciousness Activator”: a reflective awareness exercise
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A workbook with practical exercises
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Healing exercises
Live Course Schedule
The live part of this course starts on September 16.
Each week, a new module will be released.
You are also invited to join the live online sessions, which take place every Tuesday evening from 8:00 PM – 9:30 PM (CET).
These sessions include both theory and practical exercises.
All live sessions are recorded and can be rewatched at any time.
Live Online Session Dates:
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Februari 23th - March 2nd - March 9th - March 23th - April 6th - April 20th
The course starts 20.00 - 21.30 Amsterdam time
Module 1
Relationships Seen from a Rational (Earthly) Perspective vs. a Soul Perspective
In this first module, you will learn the difference between experiencing relationships on an earthly level — from the mind and rational thinking — and viewing them from your Soul Perspective, always rooted in the essence of who you truly are.
A clear example is how we, as humans, tend to create distance or even end relationships when someone no longer meets our expectations or desires. We often expect the other person to make us happy, while in truth, that is not their responsibility.
When you begin to look at relationships from the soul, you come to understand that the other is not responsible for your happiness. When someone triggers you, it becomes an invitation to look inward — to see what this reveals about yourself, and to gently heal and transform old pain.
Themes in This Module:
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Becoming aware of the greater whole and the deeper purpose of your life
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Learning, through practical exercises, that you are a soul and that relationships are rooted in love
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Cultivating gratitude for the relationships in your life
Module 2
The Blueprint of Your Relationships
In our childhood, the foundation is laid for how we experience relationships later in life. Our relationships with grandparents, parents, siblings, our place within the family system — all of these shape the common thread that runs through our relationships and relational dynamics.
In this module, you will consciously explore this thread. You will begin to recognize repeating patterns that originated in your early years, so that you can gently release and transform those that no longer serve you.
Themes in This Module:
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Becoming aware of the common thread in your relationships rooted in your childhood
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Identifying the recurring patterns you repeat from early life
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Learning to let go of patterns that no longer serve you
Module 3
Your Intuition & Relationships
You are a spiritual being in human form — and so is everyone you are in relationship with.
Do you recognize this? That instant click with certain people? The immediate sense of deep connection and recognition? Meeting someone and feeling: “I know you.”
In this module, I will guide you in understanding how this works. You will experience that there is a greater intelligence at play, and that the relationships in your life exist for a reason — guided by a larger whole.
You will begin to understand the beauty of these soul connections, and also why conflicts within them can feel so deeply painful. You will learn how to stay present with these moments, so the connection can deepen rather than disconnect. You will become aware of the energetic interaction between you and others, and what this means for relational dynamics.
You will also experience that your deceased loved ones are still with you, and that your relationship with them continues to deepen.
Themes in This Module:
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Consciously using your intuition within relationships
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Experiencing the presence of your deceased loved ones
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Understanding the difference between verbal and non-verbal communication, and its impact on relationships
Module 4
Seeing Your Most Challenging Relationships as Gifts
The heartbreaker, the irritating colleague, and that pain in the ass — they are all powerful gifts on your life path. How so? I can almost hear you wondering.
When something triggers us or causes pain, our natural response is to walk away. “This doesn’t feel right,” we think, and the pain needs to disappear. We instinctively avoid the people who touch us most deeply. This is a very human and earthly reaction.
In this module, I guide you to look at these situations differently. Imagine you were bullied as a child by dominant or intimidating peers. There is a strong chance that, later in life, you attract dominant people — while at the same time wanting to avoid them at all costs.
Why does this happen? Because your soul longs to learn how to take up space in the world and to stand in your worth — equal to anyone else. In this module, you will learn how to transform your most challenging relationships into powerful moments of growth and insight.
Themes in This Module:
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Why you often attract the same relationship situations and dynamics
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Why relationships cannot be only love and light
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Learning to look at your role within relationship dynamics with love and compassion
Module 5
Consciously Navigating the Ending of Relationships (from a Spiritual Perspective)
“People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you understand which one it is, you know exactly what to do.”
No matter how long or short someone is part of your life, there is always a sacred connection. Even when the earthly form of a relationship ends, a deeper bond remains. You have shared something meaningful, something magical — and now the form of the connection is changing.
Perhaps you are being invited to let go. Perhaps you are learning forgiveness. Perhaps the other has taught you how to stand in your truth, and the relationship has fulfilled its purpose.
In this module, you will learn why some relationships come to an end on an earthly level, while also becoming aware of the loving connection that may always exist on a soul level.
Themes in This Module:
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Understanding why the “spark” may no longer be there, and how to stay connected with love
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What to do when a friendship comes to an end
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Moving forward after separation or divorce, in a new form
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How to navigate loss and grief
Module 6
The Relationship with Yourself: The Foundation of Every Relationship
Everything truly begins with you.
Who are you? What do you need? And do you love yourself?
Can you see that you are a work in progress? That you are allowed to make mistakes. That you do not have to be — and never were meant to be — perfect? You are living this human life to learn and to experience. And so is everyone around you. Together, you are here to experience love and life.
In this module, you will learn all about self-love, self-worth, and self-compassion. You will become aware of what you truly need, and how to communicate those needs clearly and lovingly within your relationships. And so much more.
Themes in This Module:
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Who you are at your core
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What you bring into your relationships
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Learning how to care for yourself
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Self-compassion
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Daily rituals for deeper self-love and self-care
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Video Lessons
For each theme, you will receive several video lessons in which I guide you through the topic in depth.
These lessons combine theory with very clear, practical examples and tangible tools you can immediately apply in your daily life.
Guided Meditations, Visualizations & Healing Exercises
I have created several guided meditations for you, available both as video and audio.
You can download them and return to them as often as you like, whenever it feels right for you.
In addition, each module includes a dedicated healing exercise to support your process on a deeper level.
Workbooks with Practical Exercises
A beautifully designed workbook filled with practical exercises.
These exercises are easy to integrate into your daily life, helping you create new, supportive routines with ease.
Starting in February, the live online classes for this course will begin.
Over the course of six weeks, I will guide you through one module each week during a live session.
The live classes take place from 20:00 PM to 21:30 PM (CET). During these sessions, I will teach, guide you through exercises, and help you deepen your awareness of each module. There will also be space to ask questions.
All live classes are recorded and will always be available for you to watch back at your own pace.